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Gasoline and fire: Handling explosive customers
8/13/2015 8:49:40 AM

Gasoline is a volatile substance. Every time you fill your car up, take a look at the posted warnings that tell you not to smoke when you are using the pumps. Even the fumes from gasoline can ignite and cause a massive explosion. I suppose you know people who are gasoline: any little spark can set them off. They go from calm to boom in the blink of an eye. Everyone avoids them.

Now what happens when those explosive personalities are your customers? Every business depends upon a level of customer satisfaction. Good marketing plans take this into account and follow up with clients to make sure they are pleased with the products and services being rendered. But how do you deal with the person who is hot-tempered and is your customer? Should you avoid them? No, if you are doing a good job at marketing, you have to hear the good and bad about your products and services. Customer feedback is essential to making the right moves. Should you cower at their feet and take whatever they dish out? I think that leads to a bunch of bad results, like devaluing your brand, allowing a person to run roughshod over you and your coworkers, and never getting to the heart of the issue. Because when someone has such a short fuse, rarely do you get at what is really wrong. Here are some keys to dealing with the Molotov cocktail personality.

What would solve this problem for you?

One key question to diffuse the explosive personality is to confront them with questions. Don’t do this in a confrontational way, but look for ways to make things right in the eyes of the customer. If you ask, "Obviously you are pretty upset. What would solve this problem for you?” that puts the ball back in their court to suggest a fix that they could live with. If they are unreasonable, let’s say they want more than you can give, a follow up response might be, "I hear what you are suggesting, but if we do that, we will not be able to sustain our business, so let’s look for another solution.” This gives you a position from which to negotiate. Maybe you can meet him halfway. Maybe you can suggest another route to make things right. Whatever your course of action, try to sift through the anger and get to the heart of the problem. Asking for a fix should do this for you.

Don’t light matches around gasoline fumes

Gasoline is so explosive, even its mere vapor will blow up if it meets a simple spark. Understand the customer well enough that you know what sets him off and stay clear of it. It may be certain trigger words or actions that ignite the fuse. Study your customer. Know what to say and what not to say.

Don’t let a tough exterior push you away

If you are good at reading people, find the passion of their life and work your way in. Most people have a soft spot under their armor. Find out what that is with your customer. I once had a customer who was very volatile. People cowered around him. I was warned that one step out of line and he would fly off the handle and fire you. He did it to his employees, he did it to his vendors, he even did it to his customers. Everybody ducked when he got angry. I found out he loved to fly. He had a very stressful job and he flew after work, particularly in the summer in a biplane he owned. It took the edge off his day. I started talking to him about it. I was always fascinated with open cockpit biplanes. He had restored an old plane and spent his evenings flying around. One day he asked me where I lived. That evening, I heard a very distinct roar in the sky. I went out my front door to see him buzz just over my rooftop! I knew I had found his soft spot, his passion, the thing he loved to do. I called him the next day to tell him I needed a reference for a roofing contractor due to his flying ability. We laughed! It was something I could talk about with him and humanize the conversation. When you can do this, it gives you leverage to talk to your customer as a peer rather than from a subordinate position.

Be the expert of what you produce

Whether you sell a product or a service, understand it well. Make sure you have thought through common problems and how you would fix them. When you are dealing with someone who has just blown up, many times it is simply because they don’t know what to do. They feel backed into a corner. Be the expert with a plan to fix their problems. Real solutions take the fire out of the equation. Make a point of looking ahead at problems coming down the pike. Show them the problem, but always have the solution ready. In this way you will diffuse the situation before it arises.

 

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