A very frightening thing happened at the office last week.
There was a construction crew doing work on some utility lines. While they were
digging with a backhoe, they struck a gas main. The two inch line began to spew
highly pressurized natural gas into the air. The building that houses our
offices was filled with the fumes.
I was on the phone at the time it happened. I glanced out my
doorway when I heard voices. I saw two firemen walking down the hallway with
the maintenance staff. Shortly after that, a gas company employee burst into my
office and interrupted my phone conversation. He hastily asked if I could let
him into a locked part of the building. I told him he would have to find the
building manager or the maintenance crew. Just seconds behind him came our
landlord letting us know that the building had to be evacuated immediately. I
hung up the phone and made my way into the hallway. The smell of natural gas
was thick in the hallways. Without thinking, I grabbed a couple of items off my
desk and turned out the lights on my way out the door.
When I entered the parking lot, the gas smell was even
worse. I could see the leaking area blowing dust 12 feet into the air. In rapid
succession, a gas employee told me not to remotely open my car or start it, and
also to not use my cell phone until I got one block away or the entire street
would ignite! Again, I followed orders and headed out to the street. I was met
by a fireman who told me to get clear of the building. "When it blows, you
don’t want to get hit by flying glass and bricks,” he said. When it blows? Not if
it blows, but when it blows!
I found myself on the street watching as people evacuated
their buildings with whatever they grabbed as they walked out the door. Two or
three people from the law office on the corner had large stacks of files in
hand. I suppose they were in a meeting when the command to leave the building
came down. The architects in the north wing of the building had a set of
blueprints. Most people had nothing. I came away with my cell phone and a
pen. There was really no rhyme nor
reason to what people had managed to extract from their offices as they fled.
In my case, I could not even remember what I picked up. I suppose I was writing
something down and the cell phone was sitting on my desk. It is just instinct
for me to pick it up and turn out the lights every time I leave the office.
It is this instinct that I would like to address as it
applies to business. When something happens that surprises us, especially if it
is bad news, we many times react instinctively as if to save our life. Reactive
response is wonderful when you have a life-threatening situation. The fear
factor kicks in and our bodies produce adrenaline to help us to get out of a
dangerous situation quickly. There is not time to think, we just need to react.
But too often in business, we react to news or events as if we had to evacuate
the building. A decision made in the heat of the moment is typically not a good
one. These are days when bad news is happening all too frequently to
businesses. If you react out of fear, you will more than likely regret your
actions later.
As companies are making plans and setting goals for next
year, I find that many "plans” are nothing more than instinctive reactions to
bad news. Sales were down this year over last year. That trend has to change.
Pressure is applied to make a move, any move. Panic sets in. What will you do? Let me state that a marketing
decision made in a fearful, reactive manner never works. Hard times require
wise thinking about how you will market your services.
My friend Scott Livingston has written a book where he
describes the "fight or flight” center of our brain. It is called the amygdala.
In times of emergency, this tiny section of our brain takes over all thought
process and tells us to either fight for our lives or to run for cover. He
describes the "amygdala hijack” that occurs within us when we sense danger. Our
heart rate goes up, our breathing becomes heavy and our muscles are poised for
action. All rationale is tossed aside as we strive to save our life in that
instant. How do you overcome this reactive response to bad news? One is to let
some time go by before you do anything. Give yourself some time to calm down.
Monitor your breathing and find a place to relax. When the tension leaves your
body, then begin to think through the situation.
Thankfully, my office building never did blow up. After a
few hours, the gas line was pinched off, the building was tested for lingering
gas and we were cleared to go back to work. It is interesting to note that
after I sat across from my office building for a short time, I began to think
about the things I should have done before I left the office. Why grab my cell
phone instead of the only photo I have of my wife and daughter when she first
smiled as a baby? I can get another cell phone, but not another photo like this
one. Why take time to turn out the lights when I left all other electrical
machines running in the office? My point is this, after some time went by, I
had my thinking mind once again. I was able to apply reason to my realm once
again. Do yourself a favor and apply some calm reason to your planning for next
year.
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Seven
Secrets of an Emotionally Intelligent Coach, by Scott Livingston.
Buttermilk Ridge Books